Dating a best friend good or bad

Aren't you ready for someone who still makes for good company even after the passion starts to plateau?

Plus, just imagine the energy that you and a friend-turned-boyfriend will share after months (even years!

Lovelies: Yesterday, I was talking about how awesome it was to have Jake Stein* along on the weekend trip--and also talking about how Jake and I went from being best friends to being boyfriend-and-girlfriend for a brief period. " I said, thinking he was just feeling randy, and annoyed that he would risk our friendship on a whim. (Or, at least, MY insecurities.) His writing career was going well, and the work he did interested me. What's more, I was terrified we might ruin the friendship. And I really do think, after all, that the main problem was our lack of chemistry. Unless you consider the fact that I think of my husband as not only my husband, but my best friend. What I am talking about is when you take your best friend and make them into your boyfriend or girlfriend.While there are many pros to this, there are also some cons.Otherwise, I think the chance of it working out are slim.THE FACTORS THAT SHOULD BE IN PLAY BEFORE YOU START DATING YOUR BEST FRIEND 1) A mutual (and intense) desire--ON BOTH SIDES--to give it a whirl.2) The LACK of some major precipitating event.

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